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Rest Easy Queen; Zibo Bantsi gone too soon

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From every 'welcome to my channel' to every 'see you soon' Zibo managed to win hearts of not only Botswana residents but also of South Africans. I remember when I first got in contact with her videos, I was just going through YouTube looking for new content to watch and I came across one of her videos where she was talking about her relationship with her boyfriend (very inspiring as I was seeing flames in my own relationship). Her bubbly personality, beautiful soul and energy is what got me wanting more, I subscribed and eventually joined the Bantsi squad. I don't know how to comfort the family, I don't know how to comfort her friends neither do I know how to comfort the Bantsi squad however all I can say is we lost more than a vlogger, we lost more than a YouTuber we lost an entire public figure an entire content creator and amazing host. It's weird how it feels like one has lost a best friend, she managed not only to educate, inspir

Women are not rehabilitation centers for broken men

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          Source Malabela photography Qhwa qhwa qhwa (the supposedly sound that my heel makes) as I'm about to walk into a room full of men that think I am incompetent, yes you have guessed it right I'm back to square one where I have to prove myself again. I have to use this opportunity not only to prove I'm competent but also to prove behind the "loud" heel is a woman whose strong, who can handle anything and is up for a challenge. Another opportunity stolen from me simply because I am a woman, black to be precise and I am young. I'm only 21 but I'm in the corporate world wheeling and dealing my way and I'm still given the "you can't" look it's sad. After decades of years we still find ourselves in a predicament we can't take ourselves out of, yes we wanted 50/50, independence, equal pay and equal treatment simply because we understand work ethics, we understand that it makes sense to work hard for what you want and