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Letters to God: Faith

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Dear God, There are days when I don’t have the words. Days when my heart is quiet, not out of peace—but exhaustion. When the prayers don’t come easily, and faith feels like reaching into the dark, hoping You’ll still be there. Today is one of those days. I want to believe, truly I do, but some moments feel heavier than others. The waiting feels long. The silence feels loud and even though I’ve seen Your goodness before, I sometimes wonder if You still hear me. But even in my doubt, I still reach for You. That must mean something. So here I am, Lord. Not perfect. Not whole. But present. That has to count for something, too. If nothing else, thank You for never growing tired of me. Thank You for grace that meets me when I fall short. For loving me in my wrestle, not just in my worship. Help me find peace in the unknown. Remind me that You’re not gone when You’re quiet. And even if my faith is trembling, let it still be real—because I’m still choosing to turn toward You, even in ...
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Letters to God: Finding Purpose

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Dear God, This is my last attempt at blogging. Honestly, I feel so lost. At times, ideas flow effortlessly, and I’m brimming with content, but then I hit a wall where I have nothing to offer. I’m uncertain whether it’s social anxiety, fear of how others will perceive me, or the worry that no one will read my articles. I love writing—I know it's a gift you’ve blessed me with—but I’m scared. Scared to practice, scared to grow, and scared to fully embrace myself in this journey. I don’t feel aligned with my purpose—not because I lack financial success—but because I sense a deeper misalignment. I’ve tried pursuing what I believe you’ve called me to do, yet I often find myself stuck. The emptiness of being out of alignment is overwhelming, and sometimes it feels as though you’re distant, as though you’ve left me to navigate this alone. These thoughts can spiral into self-doubt, making it seem reasonable in those moments to believe the worst about myself. For the past two years, I h...
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Letters to God: Loneliness & Sin

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Dear God, It’s incredible how loneliness can lead to so much sin. I find myself drowning in struggles I’ve never faced before, yet they’ve somehow become part of my identity. It’s astonishing how a small habit can spiral into addiction. Sin brings nothing but emptiness and loneliness, and I feel trapped. I’ve always desired to get married and have a husband, but I didn’t trust your timing. I rushed into my own plans, and now I’m stuck with the consequences. After breaking up with my ex—someone I almost had a child with—I quickly moved in with my current partner. At first, things were great. But then he started cheating, finding excuses to leave the house whenever possible. I didn’t learn of it until after we had our child, who is now a toddler. Even after finding out, I stayed. I used to believe I’d walk away if a partner ever cheated on me. Yet here I am. When he promised he wouldn’t do it again, I chose to believe him. But then it happened again—this time with a colleague. The m...
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Self Care Series: Part 1 - The Physical

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Taking care of oneself is indeed a multifaceted journey that extends far beyond the realms of basic hygiene and attire. It's a holistic approach that encompasses the physical, mental, emotional, and even spiritual aspects of our being. The physical aspect, which is often the most tangible, involves not just exercise and diet, but also adequate rest and listening to the body's signals. It's about nurturing the body with nutritious food, hydrating sufficiently, and resting when needed. My story of being hospitalized for dehydration and exhaustion is a constant reminder of the consequences of neglecting our physical needs. It's a common tale in today's fast-paced world, where the hustle culture often glorifies overworking and undervalues rest. The signs of fatigue, dehydration, and poor eating habits are alarms that our body sends us, signaling the need for a change in lifestyle. Acknowledging these signs is the first step towards self-care. It's about creat...
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Are Thirst Traps Necessary In Relationships?

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We live in a time and age where most young people in relationships are comfortable in posting thirst traps, matter of fact most young people in relationships post thirst traps like it’s a norm. Have you ever heard of the term "thirst trap"? It's a slang word that refers to a provocative or seductive photo or video posted on social media, usually with the intention of attracting attention or compliments from others. Some people use thirst traps to boost their self-esteem, flirt with someone they like, or make their ex jealous. But what if you're in a relationship? Is it okay to post thirst traps when you have a partner? On every social media platform, there is about 80% of thirst trap pictures and videos that provoke the viewer and in most cases the thirst trap poster claims to merely post because they love themselves and would like to share themselves with the world. There's no definitive answer to this question, as different couples may have different bou...
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What is the difference between saving and investing?

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Saving and investing are two ways of managing your money for different purposes and time frames. Saving is putting money aside for short-term needs or emergencies, while investing is buying assets that can grow in value over time. Both saving and investing are important for your financial well-being, but they have different advantages and disadvantages. In this blog post, I will share with you my personal journey of learning about investing and how it changed my life. I grew up not really understanding how investing work. I’ve always thought it was a scam. I guess that’s why when I became older I struggled with investing money. The only thing I was always ready to pay towards and knew I wouldn’t have problem when a certain amount is deducted from account are Funeral Policies. My grandmother always said to me “always ensure you have a funeral cover and enough money saved so that when you die the family can use that money to cover for your funeral.” But then I realized that there is ...
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What are financial skills?

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One of the things that I often see on Social Media is how important it is to be financially literate from a young age. Having financial skills can help you make smart choices with your money and plan for your future. But what exactly are financial skills and why do you need them? Financial skills are the abilities that allow you to manage your money wisely and make informed financial decisions. Financial skills are crucial for anyone who wants to achieve their personal and professional dreams, whether it is retiring comfortably, buying a home, launching a business, or investing in the stock market. I have to admit that I was not always good at managing my money, and I made some mistakes that got me into debt with my friends and family. It was not a pleasant feeling to avoid their calls or to lie to them about when I could pay them back. That's why I decided to change my habits and learn how to budget, save, invest, and manage debt. These are the skills that I think everyone shoul...
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